There is quite a difference between getting an EGO and becoming CONFIDENT. A lot of people get this wrong and in the end confidence turns into shallow, spiteful and bitter behaviour which stops you from fulfilling a lot of the dreams you’ve had in your thoughts to pursue. Confidence comes from believing in yourself and being who you are, someone who can approach any challenge without judging or assuming you can’t do it. While as when Ego comes into play, you end up with confidence plus another boost that you’re better than anyone else, your ego is pride which you have over the people around you, people call it a big head. This is something you don’t want to get to. Just remember in life, you want to achieve the best for you as a person and the people around you, you want everyone to be happy and achieve the goals you want. Remember it’s not a competition to become better than others, it’s a power to get the best out of life and have a happy future, a future you might have been dreaming of since you were a child. Don’t let your ego come in the way of your thoughts, not only for your future goals but with your friends and family.
Meeting new people and growing your own business, you might find yourself doing well and achieving more, but NEVER forget those who were there from the beginning, and never start thinking you are better than anyone else or those. Your confidence will automatically become strong and that’s a good thing, you become more confident and start stepping out of your comfort zone. You become more responsible for what you do, you start doing things you were not comfortable with. Life is about taking new challenges and doing the uncomfortable, but never change. Some people become more selfish, pride takes over and ego starts to show with who they talk to and how they talk but NEVER LET THIS HAPPEN. We are all equal, there are some whose confidence levels haven’t reached where they can, this is because of the independence and thought that they can’t, when we all can.
“Confidence comes naturally when you believe” – C By KB
How to handle your thoughts if you think you are getting an ego when you don’t want one. Think about all those people you were with when you were born or raised, were you born with an Ego, were you born with anything? When you didn’t have your own independence and thoughts, were you better than anyone else? I don’t think so. You come with no ego, you are raised with Confidence and belief you’ll be someone in the future. But never forget what you started with and never judge someone else or think you’re better than anyone else. Think about all the people who have been there for you and all the struggle you have gone through to get what you want, don’t let pride take over all the hard grafting you have done. You’ll only notice your success turns into dust, especially when you lose the people who have been supporting you from the beginning.
Did you all know I’m a people person and since I was a child I’ve loved making friends, everywhere and anywhere I go. Life is about exploring and being who you want to be. I’ve got friends who work in different place from shops to banks and dentists or Drs, some who went to school and some who dropped out, yet I continued doing what I wanted. I’ve started my own thing now and nothing will stop me from continuing. I never forgot about any of my friends and the people I’ve grown up with, it’s not a competition for me and you don’t need to get an ego for earning more, it’s just about love for what I do and who I want to be. I want to go to places and be someone, be someone who can achieve the best in people. Helping others, I went through things on my own and in my own head from a young age, which is why I started writing journals. But now, I’m able to help those and talk to those who need someone just to listen to. The one thing I learnt was CONFIDENCE, when I got that confidence I didn’t have, I could do a lot more than I ever had before.
Have CONFIDENCE and pride in what you do, but never have an ego confidence or pride above others. Stay focused and stay down to earth, no one wants a show off as they call it, or someone who walks around like others are sh!t. Achieve what you want in life but never forget God and the people who have been there from the beginning.
Throw EGO out and take confidence up an notch.
Title – Ego VS Confidence
Have you ever been confident
Have you ever been successful
Have you ever been independent
Now is the time
What’s stopping you
What’s stopping you from reaching
Reaching for your dreams
Don’t be afraid
Life is one
All born in the same way
Mothers are a blessing
We all got to take chances
We all got to be brave
We all got to do the things we are uncomfortable with
Strength is a blessing
Now take your chances
Don’t think about the what could and might’s now
Stay positive
You are confident
You are powerful
You are independent
Success is a blessing now
The ones that supported you
Never forget them
Thank God daily
They’ll always be your shadow
From darkest moment to the brightest moment
They will be there
Every day to support honour and respect you
Fake friends can watch now
You don’t need to change
People will love you for you
Don’t get an ego for the amount of Facebook friends you have
Did they have faith in you
Where have they been all these years
While you were eating out of canned tins
Did they know you were going places
You had faith in yourself that’s the main
Probably the ones who bullied you at school
See that’s why I say you shouldn’t bully
It will only come back and get you now
Bullies don’t waste time
Work hard now
No one gets it for free
14 is a number you won’t be there forever
When you are 30
Will those friends be there now
Work hard for yourself
Don’t let your youth ego get you down
Be confident
Walk away from trouble
Just think about your future
You want your kids in the situation
You are someone now
People need you now
But keep that ego away
Nothing but pain can be caused
You got faith in yourself
Future goals are like diamonds
Twinkle Twinkle little star
You’re someone now
Making your own money for a living
Walking with confidence higher than Burj Khalifia
Holidays flying left right and centre
don’t walk over people
We don’t like Egos over here
We love confidence
We love faith in yourself
We love when you believe in yourself
Let the Ego go to the bins
And the confidence walk the streets
Taking you globally
We got bigger futures ahead
Walk with me
Let’s go to better places
Love
KB
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Confidence By KB 